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Creative Thinking, Inc   317 844-8189 to call Don
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN , 46032 #RAWHMBTV.21611 Exp 06-30
    Website Link:   spectatorusa.com
    Don Nixon, Chief Cheerleader, Editor & Publisher, Proofreader   Email:   dmn.ez.nni@gmail.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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  #RAWTRI.16097 Exp 12-31
    Website Link:   radioad.org/wtri
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Looking for a shop keeper who did not advertise so its web on the front door wouldn't be disturbed.


EZ Classified Advertizing™, (free or flat fee classified advertising listings) a Nixon Newspapers affiliate   317 844-8189
  Carmel IN #EZ.23177 Exp 12-30
    Website Link:   www.ezclassifiedz.com/classifieds/classified.php?pid=0&cid=101
    Don Nixon, Chief Cheerleader, Editor & Publisher, Proofreader   Email:   dmn.ez.nni@gmail.com   Ref:   USPS Direct Mail  
 
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If you are not putting more money in your drawer, it makes little difference if you have a great rate or your ads win all kinds of awards.


EZ Classified Advertizing™, (free or flat fee classified advertising listings) a Nixon Newspapers affiliate   317 844-8189
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN, 46032 #EZ.12412 Exp 01-31
    Website Link:   www.ezclassifiedz.com/classifieds/classified.php?pid=0&cid=101
    Willard P. Rohrer, General/Business Manager   Email:   willardrohrer@hotmail.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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This category contains several different specific services, so identify the generic subject as the first word in your ad. For instance, if you offer web site hosting and design, say: Internet, web hosting. You could also provide a separate listing which begins: Web site design

Other search parameters: business name, zip code (both 3 digit and 5 digit), price, free items and new items. If you have questions, please use e-mail contact button.


EZ Classified Advertizing™, (free or flat fee classified advertising listings) a Nixon Newspapers affiliate   317 844-8189
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    Willard P. Rohrer, General/Business Manager   Email:   willardrohrer@hotmail.com   Ref:   Nixon, Eugenia H  
 
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When someone wants to know more about your sale, s/he will want to know where the sale will take place and specifically what items may be unusual.

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EZ Classified Advertizing™, (free or flat fee classified advertising listings) a Nixon Newspapers affiliate   317 844-8189
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN, 46032 #EZ.5111 Exp 12-31
    Website Link:   www.auctionsandgaragesales.com
    Willard Rohrer   Email:   willardrohrer@hotmail.com   Ref:   Rohrer, Willard  
 
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One would think acceptable advertising content would not have to have an exhaustive list of that which will not be accepted. But in this day and age, some folks will think of options we have not considered.

All ads we post are subject to our approval and we will look diligently for those which are not appropriate. Click on the "Website Link:" below and in a case like this one, we would hope to catch it so it would not have been posted and then we would follow up and forward all information we have to the proper authorities.


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    Website Link:   www.news.com/8301-10784_3-9859100-7.html
    Willard P Rohrer, Classified Advertising Mgr   Email:   willardrohrer@hotmail.com   Ref:   CNET Networks - c|net.com  
 
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EZ Classified Advertizing™   317 844-8189
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN, 46032 #RAWHMBTV.18121 Exp 12-01
    Website Link:   www.radioad.org/whmbtv/classifieds/listings.php?catcode=Advertising
    Don Nixon   Email:   dmn.ez.nni@gmail.com   Ref:   dmn  
 
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    Website Link:   bands.army.mil/music/bugle/
    Ref:   Nixon, Don  
 
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Release date, expiration date, status and shared are defaults
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Content describes the product or service and can include graphics or photographs. Best file format is jpg and uploaded from the "Images" field at the bottom of the form.
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EZ Classified Advertizing™  
  Indianapolis IN #RAWHMBTV.18101 Exp 12-31
    Website Link:   www.whmbtv.com
    Don Nixon   Email:   dmn.ez.nni@gmail.com   Ref:   dmn  
 
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Colonel Bogey March

Hitler, he only had one ball,
Goering had two but they were small.
Himmler had something simmler,
And Keitel was too close to call.
Rommel, has four or five, I guess,
No one's quite sure 'bout Rudolf Hess.
Schmelling, was always yelling,
And Mister Goe-balls had no balls at all.


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Creative Thinking, Inc.

I began working for the family newspaper business at the Peru (IN) Daily Tribune in 1952 answering telephones providing basketball scores for the Indiana High School State Basketball Tournament.* I graduated to a home delivery carrier at the Wabash (IN) Plain Dealer from 1954-1956.

Throughout high school and college, I worked in various Plain Dealer departments as printer's devil, photographer, advertising inside classified sales, circulation and distribution delivery. After I graduated from Indiana University with a major in Economics and Mathematics in 1964, I began working full time as corporate secretary and treasurer and director for all the companies including Nixon Newspapers Benevolent Association, Inc.

In 1969, my US Army unit was ordered to Viet Nam. The order was canceled shortly after I had already hired and trained my replacement. At that time, three Indiana daily newspapers (Wabash, Peru and Michigan City) and one in Hammond, Louisiana, which was purchased in 1962, and the management partnership completed the organization.

At that time, the newspaper production process was changing from hot type metal to cold type and offset printing. The family decided to pursue growth by purchasing additional properties. In 1970, I helped negotiate purchase of the Frankfort Morning Times and Auburn Printing Company, which also published the Evening Star. I was publisher in Auburn. It was sold in 1972. I returned to the Wabash Plain Dealer as publisher. I also established Creative Thinking, Inc. for special projects.

To expand our Wabash and Peru printing capabilities, these weeklies were purchased or established:
The Swayzee Press,
Culver Citizen,
Pulaski County Journal,
North Judson News,
TV Plus, a television channel guide for Indiana newspapers and several local high school and college publications.**
Indiana Racquet Sports (monthly)
Portrait ***
Nixon Hoosier Feature Service****

To expand our content penetration, we built the Frankfort CATV franchise, which was later sold. Eventually we added these Indiana newspapers: New Castle, Brazil, Connersville, and in Illinois, Hoopston and Watseka

I was also a minor Kokomo Tribune partner and helped negotiate its sale to Thompson Newspapers in 1981. My mother’s grandfather was an original founder.

After Nixon Newspapers was sold in 1998 to Paxton Media and I created an Internet business model for schools, radio and television stations.

The backbone of newspaper revenue was display advertising from grocery, drug and local department stores like Sears and Penney’s. It also changed from rop (run of paper) advertising to free standing inserts, which we printed commercially. During my early career, I considered working for the New York Times as pinnacle of success, but later concluded it was better to provide a reliable local product to friends and neighbors.

And I measured success by subscription renewals. Every month to month comparison from year to year I was publisher, audited paid circulation increased.

An avid sports participant, I coached Tri State College’s soccer team in Angola when I was at Auburn and initiated girls high school teams in Indianapolis at Broad Ripple, Lawrence North, Hamilton Heights and Arlington, which had no team and was virtually all boys. *****

*  (remember the movie Hoosiers)

** TV Plus provided listings which were accurate when Indiana had several counties with different broadcast times unique to that city

*** Portrait was feature length biography in tabloid format which was distributed and sold through the Kroger stores in Ohio and Indiana: subjects included: Jane Pauley, Merv Griffin, Ray Kroc

****Special news features were sold to other newspapers including Wabash Plain Dealer Reporter Earleen Early participating for Nixon’s Ping-pong diplomacy trip to China

*****When at Auburn the annual classic car reunion and swap meet plan to relocate was abandoned after the Evening Star encouraged and coordinated the Labor Day auction, which funded preservation of the old factory now a museum and still going strong after 50 years. (The plan was later used to create the Peru Circus City Festival, which is almost the same age and ongoing)
Link:
https://automobilemuseum.org

Here’s what people say:
From: Merv Hendricks (mhendricks2@isugw.indstate.edux)
Sent: Tue 11/11/08 12:13 PM
To: Don Nixon II (dmnixonii@hotmail.com)
Hi, dmn (been a while since I typed that),

Heard your message from earlier this morning.

It will be next week or the week after, though. I am tied up in editing and designing an 80th anniversary publication for the Hoosier State Press Association — you remember it — and I have until the weekend to finish a 64-page tab. I have 20 pages finished right now, so that tells you what I will be doing with my hours away from my day job this week and weekend. I have been so busy with stuff that I must admit that I have not even looked at the links you sent. I will, however, before we meet by phone and will share them with the group.

And while I have your eyes, Don, let me say that I never appreciated how good Nixon Newspapers was and how good you were as a publisher until some years after I was gone. My days in Wabash, as I look back with white hair, were the best of my career. Yes, I was in some ways a bigger dog in Terre Haute at the papers here, but it never was as much fun, it was never as good of a culture, it was never as positive a place as was Wabash. When I think about a paper being connected with its community, I think of Wabash in those days when NNI was in charge. I really felt that we in the PD newsroom — and the PD in every department -- got to know the community and appreciate it, even though we had a changing cast of characters.

I also know now, which I didn’t know then, how much you let us, encouraged us to effectively experiment. Take the Saturday tab for instance. You gave us a toy and let us play with it. That was gutsy, given that we were all pretty much 20-something snots.

I also recall what I call big ideas that you and Ray foisted upon us — the Sunday paper covering the ceremony of the Wabash light, Ray and Harold’s trip to the Jimmy Carter White House, the Jane Pauley tab, the Bicentennial edition, the 1979 anniversary edition, the Ray Kroc tab. That proved to me that it did not take a major metro to do major metro kinds of projects. Hard work — damn straight! — but rewarding, educational and, after the pain ceased, points of pride.

For all of that and more memories whose brain cells have died, I thank you, first. I thank your late, great dad. And as I often have, I thank Ray, who I generally call or e-mail on Sept. 15, the day I started at the PD (1976).

I regret I was not more appreciative at the time and that I was often a problem in my behavior. If I could take back anything in my professional life, it would not be mistakes or bad news judgments, it would be bad behavior. It’s a wonder I wasn’t fired over and over and over. I deserved it too many times. Thank you for your support.

I still have, BTW, notes you sent me, usually written in blue grease pencil if I recall correctly, complimenting the newsroom on one thing or another. Those are still meaningful and will stay in my files as long as I live.

More than you wanted to know, dmn, but I never could write short!

Peace, love and rock-and-roll,

~ Merv

and at the website link: (It’s what the folks on the time share listings category think of it.)

The time share link is:
http://www.radioad.org/whmbtv/classifieds/listings.php?catcode=Timeshare


Nixon Newspapers   317 844-8189
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN, 46032 #RAWTRI.16055 Exp 12-31
    Website Link:   www.radioad.org/whmbtv/classifieds/listings.php?catcode=Ideas%2C+thinking
    Don Nixon, Chief Cheerleader, Editor & Publisher, Proofreader   Email:   dmn.ez.nni@ezclassifiedz.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Custom sails for your boat

Current response to:  polysail.com

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Polysail   317 385-3444
  Shannon Square, 50 NE Dixie Hwy Ste F2, Stuart FL, 34994 #RAWMRI.19839 Exp 12-21
    Website Link:   polysail.com
    David Gray   Email:   polysail@polysail.com  
 
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  #EZ.43150 Exp 12-30
    Website Link:   www.ezclassifiedz.com/classifieds/classified.php?pid=0&cid=108
    Don Nixon, Chief Cheerleader, Editor & Publisher, Proofreader   Email:   dmn.ez.nni@ezclassifiedz.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Copy your content in this listing and use the format requested
Brief statement to describe the item or service:

Business name (or your name):

Address (physical location):

City & State:

Zip Code:

Area Code:

Telephone number:

Contact name:

Email address:

Item price:

Price details:

So your submission for the listing below would look like this:
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Business name (or your name):
  EZ Classified Advertizing™

Address (physical location):
  160 W Carmel Dr

City & State:
  Carmel IN (Please use the post office format which is the city and 2 letter state

Zip Code:
  46032 (use 5 digit zip code)

Area Code:
  317 (use 3 digit area code)

Telephone number:
  844-8189

Contact name:
  Don Nixon

Email address:
  dmn.ez.nni@gmail.com

Free item?
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Item price:
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Price details:
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EZ Classified Advertizing™   317 844-8189
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN, 46032 #RAWMRI.18971 Exp 12-31
    Don Nixon, Chief Cheerleader, Editor & Publisher, Proofreader   Email:   dmn.ez.nni@gmail.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Enter the zip code where you want to locate the information (then check the exact zip code box if needed)
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Enter your zip code. The database will select all items with the first three digits of your zip code, in this case "460" which generally is a sectional center or a 50 mile radius.

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EZ Classified Advertising™, (free or flat fee classified advertising listings) a Nixon Newspapers affiliate   317 844-8189
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN, 46032 #EZ.30618 Exp 12-31
    Willard P. Rohrer, General/Business Manager   Email:   willardrohrer@hotmail.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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EZ Classified Advertising™, (free or flat fee classified advertising listings) a Nixon Newspapers affiliate   317 844-8189
  #EZ.30243 Exp 12-31
    Website Link:   www.ezclassifiedz.com/classifieds/classified.php?pid=0&cid=102
    Willard P Rohrer, Classified Advertising Mgr   Email:   willardrohrer@hotmail.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Father's Day

"Fathers linked to healthy families"...

Headlines such as the one above this essay should be relegated to the "Keen Sense of the Obvious" files.

What cadre of nescient dolts does not already know fathers are essential to healthy families, and who among us would waste good money on a study to affirm that which is so abundantly clear?

Alas, certain enlightened folks out there insist holding the institution of fatherhood in high esteem is tantamount to misogyny. For the past four decades, many insisted mothers can do it all. Gloria Steinem, once declared, "A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle."

Maureen Dowd's book, "Are Men Necessary?" may have become the manifesto of the man-hating movement.

Academicians spend tax dollars to research this very question, despite the plethora of family research, which indicates children raised in homes with their biological fathers have a much higher chance of succeeding in life.

Unfortunately, some 25 million American children live absent or apart from their biological fathers. One in three children—and only one in five inner-city children—are in homes with their fathers.

Many moms have no choice but to do it all because many biological fathers have abdicated their responsibility for proper love, discipline, teaching, support, moral guidance and protection for their own family.

"The lack of effective, functioning fathers is the root cause of America's social, economic and spiritual crises."  ~ Dr. Edwin Cole.

The disastrous social consequences of this abdication are clearly evident and well documented. Though many single moms do manage to bring up relatively well-adjusted kids with the help of extended families, churches and schools, the correlation between social deviancy and fatherless homes is irrefutably linked.

"The lack of effective, functioning fathers is the root cause of America's social, economic and spiritual crises," writes Dr. Edwin Cole.

To wit, the truth—and it is a hard truth for men who have abandoned their families, but a harder truth for their children: According to the CDC, DoJ, DHHS and the Bureau of the Census, those 30 percent of children who live apart from their fathers will account for 63 percent of teen suicides, 70 percent of juveniles in state-operated institutions, 71 percent of high-school dropouts, 75 percent of children in chemical-abuse centers, 80 percent of rapists, 85 percent of youths in prison, and 85 percent of children who exhibit behavioral disorders. In addition, 90 percent of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes.

Children born to unwed mothers are 10 times more likely to live in poverty as children with fathers in their home.

"[The causal link between fatherless children and crime] is so strong that controlling for family configuration erases the relationship between race and crime and between low income and crime," notes social researcher Barbara Dafoe Whitehead. David Blankenhorn, president of the Institute for American Values, adds, "[The absence of fathers] from family life is surely the most socially consequential family trend of our era."

So, fathers do matter—as if that were a recent revelation.

In 295 BC, Mencius wrote, "The root of the kingdom is in the state. The root of the state is in the family. The root of the family is in the person of its head."

Of course, the traditional family model is clearly ordained by God as evidenced throughout the Old and New Testaments. Every major religion anywhere in the world recognizes an identical family order.

Tragically, the pages of history—especially 20th-century history—are rife with terrible misdeeds of those who were raised without fathers, or with abusive fathers: Adolf Hitler, Joseph Stalin, Mao Zedong, Saddam Hussein, Osama bin Laden, etc.

A strong case can be made certain social policies are directly responsible for generations of fatherless children—particularly black children. Does one political party depend on a vested interest to keep blacks and other "victimized" constituencies dependent on the state.

Sunday, many American families will observe Father's Day. To consdier the irreplaceable institution of fatherhood, we hope these families might also determine how their fathers might extend their roles in outreach to fatherless children:
By mentoring through Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts, Big Brothers-Big Sisters, youth groups, Boys Clubs, and Girls Incorporated;
or by coaching little-league sports,
or teaching in Sunday school,
or becoming a school tutor,
or volunteering to work with high-risk kids through inner-city ministries, to name just a few.

(For more information and resources on parenting, visit First Things First.)


First Things First   423 267-5383 F 423-267-8876
  620 Lindsay Street, Suite 100 Chattanooga TN, 37403 #EZ.27717 Exp 06-20
    Website Link:   firstthings.org
    Ref:   Nixon, Don  
 
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  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN, 46032 #RAWKLU.25759 Exp 12-26
    Website Link:   spectatorusa.com
    Don Nixon, Chief Cheerleader, Editor & Publisher, Proofreader   Email:   dmn.ez.nni@gmail.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Price: $1,000,000.00 / and no less

first, get it RIGHT!

Nixon Newspapers, Inc   317 844-8189
  2 W Canal St Wabash IN, 46992 #EZ.53072 Exp 12-30
    Website Link:   spectatorusa.com
    Don Nixon, Chief Cheerleader, Editor & Publisher, Proofreader   Email:   dmn.ez.nni@gmail.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Vickie at 5605 W 71st  St branch (329-5060)

Huntington Bank   317 876-1328
  5605 W 71st St Indianapolis IN, 46278 #RAWHMBTV.21616 Exp 07-02
    Website Link:   www.huntington.com
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Don Nixon II, former Publisher, Proofreader

Credible sources of information are valuable, respected and reliable. Advertisers like to attempt to gain the same reputation and sources of information often “lend” their reputation to their paying supporters.

It’s begins a tightrope journey from integrity.


EZ Classified Advertizing™   317 844-8189
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN, 46032 #EZ.47262 Exp 12-30
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Marine Corp Band plays Sousa's Stars and Stripes Forever.

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Mehrabian 7-38-55 rule.

Mehrabian 7-38-55 rule.

 7% of meaning is communicated through the spoken word.
38% percent through tone of voice.
55% percent through body language.


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Creative Thinking, Inc   317 844-8189 to call Don
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN , 46032 #EZ.53071 Exp 12-01
    Website Link:   www.radioad.org/wtri
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Nixon, Don   317 844-8189
  6511 Cane Ridge Ct Indianapolis IN, 46268 #RAWHMBTV.21379 Exp 06-30
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Alexander, Elizabeth  
  Indianapolis IN, 46268 #RAWHMBTV.21377 Exp 06-30
    Elizabeth Alexander   Email:   elizalex@robinrunresidents.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Notice this listing is assigned to Elizabeth Alexander and she doesn't have as much access to the system items under the Main Menu column.

There are more content fields following this listings which should be self evident.


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thecybersmith  
  Bloomington IN #RAWTRI.16119 Exp 12-30
    Website Link:   thecybersmith.com
    Cameron Smith   Email:   cameron@thecybersmith.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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     Excuse the mess this is in. I built this system more than 20 years ago and have to putz around with it but haven't actually got much traction so this is a new effort using the many years with the old system which was hacked several times and only limps along now. However, I am told whiz kids now can re-write PHP and if enough of you participate, that could be done sooner than later.

     Here are some things you might want to notice on this listing you might have missed.

     The 3 buttons at the upper right on the left, the first lets you see all the new items. The second lets you see if the item is free only if the button shows up, and the third (it will be the second if the "free" button isn't available) lets you print the specific item or all in the list.

     And on this listing, one of the bugs I haven't fixed (I haven't found it, there's a lot of code I don't know), the button on the far left is a video link. It doesn't work for me. Today actually is Memorial Day as I am posting this and it is particularly appropriate to reflect on his message. If the link doesn't work for you, and you can't get it, try searching Google for: God Bless The USA.mp4


Easy Classified Advertizing™   317 844-8189 to call Don
  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN , 46032 #RAWHMBTV.21607 Exp 06-30
    Website Link:   spectatorusa.com
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Star Financial Bank   317 86-2920 x 2924
  9102 N Meridian St Indianapolis IN, 46260 #RAWHMBTV.21608 Exp 06-30
    Website Link:   starfinancial.com
    Stacy Chemelewski   Email:   stacy.chemelewski@starfinancial.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Have a contest for all banks to see how many listings they can post. Handicap number of accounts, trade area, number of businesses, number of churches, etc


Star Financial Bank   317 816.2911 ext. 3138
  46 Monument Circle Indianapolis IN, 46204 #RAWHMBTV.21609 Exp 06-30
    Website Link:   starfinancial.com
    Lindsay Raifsnider | Relationship Manager   Email:   Lindsay.Raifsnider@starfinancial.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Star Financial Bank   317 816-2953
  140 E Carmel Dr C, 46032 #RAWHMBTV.21619 Exp 07-10
    Website Link:   starfinancial.com
    Demetrius Warren   Email:   demetrius.warren@starfinancial.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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Take your time

Take Your Time  -   Anjula Razdan

It is in our idleness, in our dreams, that the submerged truth sometimes comes to the top. - Virginia Woolf

Lately, I've been approaching bedtime the way, I assume, marathoners approach the finish line, which is to say, exhausted and in need of a nourishing IV. Buoyed by the frenetic pace of what philosophy professor Al Gini has called the Everydayathon of modern life, I leapfrog from errand to errand, desperate to get my unwieldy to-do list under control.

No longer do I have time in my overbooked life for the kind of roomy, deep-focus activities that used to sustain me.

The bookcase behind my bed is a shrine to my aborted attempts at reading novels, my e-mail inbox a painful reminder of the nurturing friendships I've let drift away. I even have a slow cooker I've never used.

Indeed, many people these days seem to suffer from what comedian Ellen DeGeneres has termed TBS, or Too-Busy Syndrome. We speed date, guzzle Red Bull, race to yoga, schedule Cesareans, and, in the ultimate catch-22, engage in faux-leisure activities such as scrapbooking, which requires us to pack our schedules ever more tightly in order to glean experiences worthy of scrapbooking. Quips DeGeneres: It's enough to make you miss Mayberry, isn't it?

It's a joke, but an apt one. Many Americans, worn out by what former U.S. poet laureate Billy Collins calls this culture's mad theology of speed, have started to cast their minds back to the rural values of simplicity associated with small towns like Mayberry, the famously easy and slow setting of The Andy Griffith Show. In fact, four months before the 2004 presidential election, renowned Republican pollster Frank Luntz revealed that lack of free time was the biggest concern among swing voters. Not the economy. Not health care. Not even the war in Iraq... The issue of time matters to them more than anything else in life.

...Perhaps a retreat from modernity and a return, however regressive, to a simpler time is exactly the point for many overworked, overscheduled, and exhausted Americans. After all, Americans are busier now than they've ever been. We work more and vacation less than any other industrialized nation (even Japan, which has a word, kashori, that roughly translates as death from overwork). Global competition, corporate downsizing, and a shaky economy have demanded that we step up our productivity. And, in the ultimate bait and switch, supposed labor-saving devices like computers, cell phones, and BlackBerrys have instead enslaved us, forcing us to be on 24/7 and pushing us to accomplish tasks faster and faster.

Technology, observes Robert Kamm, author of The Superman Syndrome, forces Americans to live at speed, not at depth.

...In truth, we've always been suckers for the promise of a simpler life. Take the popular new reality television show Amish in the City. In a witty analysis in The Washington Monthly (Oct. 2004), Sasha Issenberg claims that we have long romanticized the Amish for their plain ways.

In living Amish culture, [we] see both the purity of a simpler past and a promise of a more virtuous present, Issenberg writes. Americans lionization of the Amish is part of a broader tradition the reactionary anti-urban, anti-consumerist vein in our national life that had its roots among America's first Puritan settlers and has lasted well into the modern age in communities ranging from the crunchy back-to-the-land hippies of the 1960s to the right-wing survivalists of today.

The busier we get, it seems, the more we make a fetish of the simple life. Like Depression-era audiences who lapped up Busby Berkeley's lavishly produced, exorbitant musicals, we'll make do with fantasy if we can't attain the reality.

We weren't always so lost. Aristotle's famous view that we work in order to have leisure held up well into the 20th century, according to Ben Hunnicutt, professor of leisure studies at the University of Iowa. For more than a century prior to the 1930s, American workers successfully lobbied for higher wages and shorter hours, most notably the eight-hour workday and five-day workweek, and there was a widespread expectation that leisure would increasingly come to dominate our lives.

Back then, Hunnicutt says, the American Dream consisted of two things: more wealth and more time to live. And it wasn't just put-upon workers who defined progress as having more leisure time. Liberation capitalists like W.K. Kellogg and Lord Leverhulme (one of the Lever Brothers) viewed the coming age of leisure as the finest possible accomplishment of industrial capitalism. Kellogg even put his money where his mouth was and, in 1930, instituted a six-hour workday in his Battle Creek, Michigan, cereal factories. The result? Not surprisingly, workers spent more time with their kids and in their communities, strengthening both family and civic ties.

So why didn't this utopian experiment spread across the country? The answer is complicated, Hunnicutt says, but one factor is consumerism and the birth of marketing in the 1920s. There was a great deal of pessimism in the 1920s that the economy was not going to grow anymore because people had all they needed. Then this new view comes along that it's possible to convince people to buy things they never needed before, he explains.

That idea of scarcity, that there is never going to be enough, many observers agree, created our desire to have it all and is a big reason why we feel so busy today. We're taught from birth that there's always more to have, more to need, Hunnicutt says. We've created a Frankenstein, a monster that requires us to work continually.

...Perhaps time (or lack thereof) is the ultimate moral issue. That's one of the ideas behind Take Back Your Time (www.timeday.org), a nonpartisan national campaign that aims to lobby Congress with a multi-pronged legislative agenda...Time is a family value, observes national coordinator John de Graaf. Americans talk a lot about family values these days but often leave [that] one out. ...Time, he observes, is an overarching issue that cuts across ideological lines and draws interest from a diverse mix of people. [As Carl Honore says, it's] all about balance.

Be fast when it makes sense to be fast, and be slow when slowness is called for, he writes. Seek to live at what musicians call the tempo giusto -- the right speed.

...Of course, no one says the revolution can't begin at home. There are a number of things we can do as individuals to carve out a sanctuary from our busy lives:

Embrace solitude. Loneliness is the poverty of self, poet May Sarton declared. Solitude is the richness of self. It is only in those quiet, empty moments of repose, when we are finally, blissfully alone, that we can daydream, stare out a window, talk to ourselves, or engage in random thoughts and the luxury of being bored.

Cultivate your inner Dilbert. Use all of your vacation and sick time (even if you're not sick). Overall, American workers gave up $21 billion last year in unused vacation time. Look out for your self...

Focus on the moment. Grate a radish, rub your dog's belly, or simply savor that first glorious sip of morning espresso, and you will understand what novelist Henry Miller meant when he said, The moment one gives close attention to anything, even a blade of grass, it becomes a mysterious, awesome, indescribably magnificent world in itself.

Cancel your plans with someone. He or she will love you for it.

Reconsider your dream job. Leisure professor Ben Hunnicutt says we have unreal expectations about fulfilling our creative urges and realizing our humanity and changing the world through our jobs. I see very little hope for a reevaluation of leisure until our expectation that the American Dream is fulfilled by a job that is rewarding, has a good salary, and so on, begins to change, Hunnicutt says.

Engage in proactive television watching. Television, many experts say, is a big reason we feel crunched for time. We park ourselves on the couch intending to watch only one, maybe two, shows, and hours later, we're still there...

Learn to say no. Be mercenary about your engagements.

Reject e-mail's Pavlovian ping. Train people to expect a response an hour, a day, or even a full week after they e-mail you.

Grating a radish or e-mailing someone a week late may not exactly seem revolutionary. And yet, making our nation's collective fantasy of slowing down a reality could ultimately save us. As Mark Slouka writes in Harper's Magazine (Nov. 2004), Idleness is not just a psychological necessity. . . . It constitutes as well a kind of political space, a space . . . necessary to . . . democracy . . . by allowing us time to figure out who we are, and what we believe; by allowing us time to consider what is unjust, and what we might do about it.

...Perhaps it's too much to hope for, but taking on the modern culture of busyness may be one way to bridge our ideological divide. Lack of free time, after all, is an everyday civic issue that affects us all. Busyness remains our national theology, but if we slow down and allow ourselves to just be, we may start to heal.

As the monk Thomas Merton said, It is in deep solitude that I find the gentleness with which I can truly love my brothers. The more solitary I am, the more affection I have for them. . . . Solitude and silence teach me to love my brothers for what they are, not for what they say.

[Anjula Razdan is a senior editor of Utne. Edited from an article in the January/February 2005 issue of UTNE: www.utne.com ]


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  160 W Carmel Dr Carmel IN , 46032 #KUBE.21587 Exp 07-05
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The National Bank of Indianapolis   317 261-9702
  107 N Pennsylvania St #700 Indianapolis IN, 46204 #RAWHMBTV.21612 Exp 07-02
    Website Link:   www.nbofi.com/management-team
    Mark E. Bruin - President and CEO   Email:   markbruin@nbofi.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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The National Bank of Indianapolis   317 261-9626
  107 N Pennsylvania St #700 Indianapolis IN, 46204 #RAWHMBTV.21613 Exp 07-02
    Website Link:   www.nbofi.com/management-team
    Douglas C. Talley - Executive VP & Chief Banking Officer & Chief Lending Officer   Email:   dougtalley@nbofi.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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The National Bank of Indianapolis   317 261-9737
  107 N Pennsylvania St #700 Indianapolis IN, 46204 #RAWHMBTV.21614 Exp 07-02
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    Ann M. Merkel - Senior VP & Chief Market Development Officer   Email:   annmerkel@nbofi.com   Ref:   dmn:marilynmonroe  
 
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The National Bank of Indianapolis and Easy Classified Advertizing™   317 267-1696
  107 N Pennsylvania St #700 Indianapolis IN, 46204 #RAWHMBTV.21615 Exp 07-02
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US Open umbrella

US Open Indoor Championships™
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US Open Challenge(™)

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Merv

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You don't have to attend every argument you're invited to....

◝Arguments needn't be about shouting or imposing your will on someone. A good argument shouldn't involve screaming, squabbling or fistfights, even though too often it does. Shouting matches are rarely beneficial to anyone.

◝The aim of an argument - or of a discussion - should not be victory but progress. Make sure you know essential points you want to make. Research facts you need to convince your opponent.

◝Before starting an argument think carefully about what it is you are arguing about and what it is you want. This may sound obvious. But it's critically important. What do you really want from this argument?

◝Do you want the other person to just understand your point of view? Or are you seeking a tangible result?

If it's a tangible result, you must ask yourself whether this result you have in mind is realistic and whether it's obtainable. If it's not realistic or obtainable, then a verbal battle might damage a valuable relationship.

◝Spend time thinking about how to present your argument. Body language, choice of words, and manner of speaking all affect how your argument will come across.

◝You should spend more time listening than talking. Aim for listening for 75 percent of the conversation and giving your own arguments 25 percent.

◝Think carefully about what arguments the other person will listen to. What are their preconceptions? Which kinds of arguments do they find convincing.

◝There are three main ways to respond to an argument:
1) challenge the facts the other person is using;
2) challenge the conclusions they draw from those facts; and
3) accept the point, but argue the weighting of that point (i.e., other points should be considered above this one.)

◝Arguments are not always as good as they first appear. Be wary of your opponent's use of statistics. Keep alert for distraction techniques as personal attacks, red herrings. Look out for concealed questions and false choices.

◝Keep it simple and clear. Be brief, don't rush.

◝Always choose clarity over pomposity! Be short, sharp, and to the point, using language easily understood.

◝Be creative to find ways out of an argument that's going nowhere. Is it time to look at the issue from another angle? Are there ways of putting pressure on so that the other person has to agree with you? Is a compromise possible?

This is absolutely the key: What do you want from this argument? Humiliating, embarrassing or aggravating your opponent might make you feel good at the time, but you might have many lonely days to rue your mistake. Find a result that works for both of you. You need to move forward. Then you will be able to argue another day.


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